How many of us have an ex-lover we call "Captain Loser Pants"? If someone from your past takes the time and energy to insult you or avoid you, it only means that you made it into their heart.

 
Eventually everyone grows past being petty and cruel. But it's only after having been rejected and being the one to reject others enough times that one might come to realize that it was all just a silly dance and that we are just as imperfect as anyone whom we judged once.

 
Ultimately we are all more than our imperfect bodies and lives on Earth. You are pure infinite spirit, and everything you do here on Earth has absolutely ZERO impact on your soul. Your soul is much greater than you think it is. It occupies every point in time, every point in space, and "is" everywhere you will ever or have ever been--all simultaneously.

 
In this way, we can see how true love is possible. Many people who are in love and loved are not perfect. In fact, the majority of people in love are much less than perfect. And yet still they have love. That's because love is less about the here and now, and more about the soul, which is "everywhere."

 
The truth is that you are not loved for what you do or have. You are loved for who you are.

 
Those who have eyes to see, will see you.